Initial sync failing

I have a setup with a primary and secondary node, both of which are working fine with 5 TB each. Recently, I added a new node for replication, but it’s been stuck on syncing for 50 days. The sync keeps dropping and restarting, and I can’t figure out why. Initially, the oplog size was 50 GB, but I increased it to 150 GB, and the problem persists. I also tried taking a snapshot of the EBS volume, backing up the EC2, and attaching the volume created from the snapshot, but MongoDB fails to start every time. I deleted the log and mongod.lock files as suggested in forums, but that hasn’t helped. Additionally, I increased the IOPS from 8k to 15k, but the issue persists. I’m using MongoDB version 6 with a GP3 volume type. I’m really frustrated, as I’ve tried many things without success. I have 2 million records updated or inserted per day, and I need a proper solution to get the new node to fully sync and work correctly.

After going through logs i found out this error
//root@ip-10-10-101-243 ec2-user]# sed -n ‘/2025-04-06T02:20:28.700+00:00/,/2025-04-06T02:20:20/p’ /mongodb/log/mongod.log
{“t”:{“$date”:“2025-04-06T02:20:28.700+00:00”},“s”:“I”, “c”:“COMMAND”, “id”:20499, “ctx”:“ftdc”,“msg”:“serverStatus was very slow”,“attr”:{“timeStats”:{“after basic”:0,“after activeIndexBuilds”:0,“after asserts”:0,“after batchedDeletes”:0,“after bucketCatalog”:0,“after catalogStats”:0,“after connections”:0,“after electionMetrics”:0,“after extra_info”:0,“after flowControl”:0,“after globalLock”:0,“after indexBulkBuilder”:0,“after indexStats”:0,“after locks”:0,“after logicalSessionRecordCache”:0,“after mirroredReads”:0,“after network”:0,“after opLatencies”:0,“after opcounters”:0,“after opcountersRepl”:0,“after oplog”:0,“after oplogTruncation”:0,“after readConcernCounters”:0,“after repl”:0,“after scramCache”:0,“after security”:0,“after storageEngine”:0,“after tcmalloc”:10699,“after tenantMigrations”:10699,“after trafficRecording”:10699,“after transactions”:10699,“after transportSecurity”:10699,“after twoPhaseCommitCoordinator”:10699,“after wiredTiger”:10699,“at end”:10700}}}
{“t”:{“$date”:“2025-04-06T02:20:41.373+00:00”},“s”:“I”, “c”:“NETWORK”, “id”:22943, “ctx”:“listener”,“msg”:“Connection accepted”,“attr”:{“remote”:“10.10.111.108:48920”,“uuid”:“4bf4b259-891c-47d5-8d96-2b39bb6077ed”,“connectionId”:7319,“connectionCount”:186}}
{“t”:{“$date”:“2025-04-06T02:20:41.375+00:00”},“s”:“I”, “c”:“NETWORK”, “id”:51800, “ctx”:“conn7319”,“msg”:“client metadata”,“attr”:{“remote”:“10.10.111.108:48920”,“client”:“conn7319”,“doc”:{“application”:{“name”:“publish.downloadinfocount”},“driver”:{“name”:“mongo-csharp-driver”,“version”:“2.27.0”},“os”:{“type”:“Linux”,“name”:“Debian GNU/Linux 12 (bookworm)”,“architecture”:“x86_64”},“platform”:“.NET 8.0.14”}}}
{“t”:{“$date”:“2025-04-06T02:20:41.438+00:00”},“s”:“I”, “c”:“NETWORK”, “id”:22943, “ctx”:“listener”,“msg”:“Connection accepted”,“attr”:{“remote”:“10.10.111.108:48928”,“uuid”:“496ad60e-6674-4300-8d47-b23c26e7088b”,“connectionId”:7320,“connectionCount”:187}}

I research about it ,it seems to be a issue of resource but when i check resource utilization it was not even 50% of my ec2 and its volume ? pls help me to resolve this issue with my mongodb replica